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Monthly Archives: January, 2014

Arrogance Is Ugly

Your looks, money, kind of car you drive and expensive attire that you spend most of your time thinking about is just you and stuff. S.U.R.F.A.C.E is easy access and visibility. D.E.P.T.H is where the truth lives.

January 28, 2014 · 1 Comment

Smiling Through My Winter(s)

I have a favorite season. Winter is not one of them, but people in their self proclaimed infinite wisdom, would swear by my smile, that it suits me just fine. That’s because I cover myself up quite well! Don’t we all?

January 27, 2014 · 9 Comments

Never Invest 100% of You To Him or Her Blindly 

Most of the time we do not realize just how less important we are until we decide to do what’s best for us. The truth will at first make you miserable, but nothing beats having your spirit set free.

January 24, 2014 · 2 Comments

The Come Up

That’s what they do. Don’t be mad, it’s how they operate, but you don’t have to go for the Okey doke. You probably have that text message on its way to your phone now!

January 21, 2014 · 2 Comments

The Truth Is…Sex Is Not Always A Bowl Of Roses

Warning: Although I kept it as clean as possible, this may be too graphic for virgins, male or female, and too real for Holy eyes, yet it is still teachable. I grew up with 3 brothers who were always honest with me about their thoughts on boy vs. girl, sex and relationships. I have to say, some of the myths they still carry to this day are hilarious. Here’s the truth!

January 17, 2014 · 8 Comments

Break The Rules Of The Sexes and Exes

Where man and woman is concerned, it is best to be exactly who you are and he or she can decide whether or not they can see you in their future. There’s too many people pretending and following the boy + girl rules.

January 14, 2014 · Leave a comment

Shades Of Pink

How much time, money, passion, sweat, tears and commitment have you invested, yet it is still not quite right? When do you stop leaning then, unto your own understanding?

January 13, 2014 · Leave a comment

Married 3 Times But Never Been Proposed To

As I watched a video on fbook of a man who proposed to his woman in front of America on national television, as usual, the crocodile tears welled up into my eyes.

January 5, 2014 · 6 Comments

Ladies! Fix Your Stuff!

There is a certain respect that we all should have for the House of GOD and as women especially, we should do what we can to not be a distraction. … Continue reading

January 3, 2014 · 2 Comments


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